I have been very selfish in our marriage, over the past 5 years. I cheated more than once. I never gave a second thought to my wife's, childrens or others feelings or opinions. We separated in Feb. She said that she felt like, right now, she needed a divorce to get closure from our marriage and find herslef again, regain her independence and self worth. I began truly trying to find my problems and correct them around the 1st of March, I didn't make any great progress until the last two weeks. My wife has said that she sees the difference in me, but also knows what and who I can be. Meaning that she knows the good sides and bad. She talked to a lawyer last Monday and told him to prepare the papers yesterday. Has anyone else been in this position? In our state the papers have to be filed for 60 days, before the judge can grant the divorce. Has anyone stopped the process before the final day? I am preparing myself for the divorce, emotionally, but does anyone have any hope to offer me at this point? I am still committed to my wife and will always be. We both agreed this morning on the phone, that we have started regaining our friendship, but she doesn't know if she can fall back in love with me. She is still very afraid of being hurt again.
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