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and in the months before I must have felt it because I remember saying to her and the kids "it feels like you just don't want me around any more"
I guess that WAS the case
We both thought about it but never did anything about it until recently.
I think the beginning of the end was when I found out something that happened a year earlier that I didn't think the mother knew. So I caught BOTH of them in a lie. Instead of a unified mother/father->child, it turned mother/daughterXfather.
I backed off and said she can take care of all decisions with her from then on, and then 3 months later.... maybe she just couldn't deal with the guilt any more... or maybe there was MORE and I only hit the tip of the iceburg.
I don't know, but looking back, I'm so glad it worked out the way it did. If I wanted OUT I'd never have gotten the deal I got, and it just cost me $$$. I got my peace and free time.
There were a couple more times he wanted to break up before we got married.