I have been thrown out of my home for domestic violence (not the case), and my wife has been calling almost daily for the last 10 days! She seems totally conflicted. She thought that was the only way she would ever get the space she needed-- ugh. Now I have been served with divorce papers, and she continues to tell me that she just wants space, and we can go to counseling to try to save our family -- two kids-- awesome kids-- ages 7 and 9. I have the kids now in a hotel, and next week she gets them per the agreement when she had a restraining order written. We have seen each other almost daily, talked every day, except today, and she continues to tell me how deeply she loves me. I feel like a puppet on a string. I have avoided contacting an attorney to answer the restraining order or the divorce, but I'm running out of time for the insanity to end. Any thoughts? She is a beautiful woman who has self loathing issues, which I'm sure I intensified through a lack of affection. I've written her poems, been passionate with her, and revealed my own insecurities so that she recognizes the depth of my love. I'm really starting to think we're in big trouble here.
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