Well I have been involved with this man for 13 years. We have lived together and separate. We have 4 wonderful children together. He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I wonder if he is being truthful. During our relationship he has had another kid with someone else so of coarse that girl has been around off and on. I December is when he started this again and I have walls built up but I want to let them down but I am scared. She has went and put a restraining order against him and has a new man in her life, and he is now really want to come home. I don't know weather to be happy or not I dont want to be 2nd best but he says thats not how it is. She used their son against him. If he was with me ahe wouldnt let him see him much but she says he can see him if he is with me. So is this my lucky break or am I setting myself up for a fall. I feel after 13 years and 4 kids I should have got a ring before December. But I might be wrong. I really could use so imput. Is it time or is time up?
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