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how long do I have to hold this stuff

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domestic issue.lead to a divorce.I retained house.he was to leave by a certain day.was given two weeks to vacate.he didn't.he came the day after to retrieve personal items.got arrested due to perm. injuntion.home was unlivable after retrieving it.everything was moved to safe place.Approx.3 mths later he tried to have me arrested for stealing his personal items.(furn. only).Not only did he not take care of household items.he abondoned it.also the family pet.the landlord called me to pick up pet.
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I'm so sorry to hear t his! Why do people pull this crap?

I've just recently decided that I'm ready for a pet and I'm very carefully shopping for a good "match". How anyone can abandon a defensless animal is beyond me!

But then again look at how many idiots (gender be damned) abandon defensless children!
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Well, that all depends on what the papers state. If they don't state anything on the time line, then I would think that you wouldn't have to hold it for any longer than the alotted time. To be sure, I would check your papers & ALSO contact an attorney. Hope this helps.
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deleted_user
No alotted time was given other than he had two weeks to vacate.
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Yes it was so sad for our 2 yr old lab..when I got her back..she had no hair... I got her back in July..it is now Oct..she is looking better with treatments.HE should be ashamed.
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AWWW Cynda. I know what you mean. I own two AKC Labs. Male Black/Hunter--is his name & Female/Brandy--is her name. They are JUST like my kids & wouldn't be able to live without them.
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Yes in deed catfisher..I have had her since pup..black lab..so smart too..but I can tell that she is different too..I guess cause she probably thought he loved her too.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
that is so sad darling.. my beloved dog just passed away.. and he was most definetly a vital part of our family.

I can not comprehend someone treating their dog like that. Too cruel.

very telling about the person who does this.
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my recent ex...I remember when his former wife had to put their poodle down..I came home to find him drunk and bawling.

After his cheating drove me to a nervous breakdown...I didn't see a tear...just wanted to know if I was going to cook supper!
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