I don't get it. What is the point in getting married at all if you are just going to give up? Isn't there something in the marriage vows about better or worse? My husband said he needed more attention and affection. I thought I was giving it to him because he didn't continue to complain. What was I supposed to think? Now he just wants to give up and is blaming me! I don't get it! I communicated with him when something was bothering me. Marriages aren't perfect and they take work. Why can't he understand that? He isn't even willing to go to counseling. I don't understand. Reading some of the other messages, I noticed that others seem to be in the same boat. I am new to the site as my husband just informed me of his wishes two weeks ago. How do you come to terms with the end of a 9 year relationship that you thought was great, had great communication, with your best friend, when you always told each other that everything would be ok as long as you had each other?
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