The emotional and financial drainage I am feeling is leaving me stressed out. I have nightmares, reliving the final days of our marriage before the separation over and over in my sleep as clear as if it were yesterday...it's been 8 months. I am paying a lawyer $250 an hour to represent me but am being told that I am going to have to fly back out to california both on Aug 1st and 19th for divorce court. I can't afford to do that and quite frankly, isn't that what I am paying the lawyer for...to represent me?? I just wish this nightmare I am living both in my sleep and in real life would end soon. How long does it take to get divorced when you were only married for 3 months, but in the court's eyes, 2?
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