My stbx and I have been separated for almost 2 months. To give you some background info, I found out that he was seeing another woman while I was pregnant with our son; but I found it out after I had given birth. (At that time, we had been married for five years.) For about six months we tried to work through it but he kept talking to these women and told me that he could talk to who ever he wanted to talk to. At that point, I was done trying to fix what was broken. Immediately after I found a place for my son and I, he moved in with this girl and her son. I was devastated because he was ultimately choosing to spend his time with someone else's child versus his own. He claims that they are 'roommates' but I know better than that. Everyday I have to see him because he picks our son up from daycare. Everyday, I look into the face of someone who appears to be totally unhappy. Although I have no plans of going back to him, I often wonder how does he feel? Though I am open to all feedback, I would love to hear from the men on this one.
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