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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Can anyone tell me, how to stop loving him? We were together a year and a half, he's the last one I talk to before I went to sleep every night and the first one I called when I woke up. We fell out on October 7th. I just don't know how to forget him. When ever something great happens I reach for my phone to call him..only he's no longer there. Some days I hurt so much all I can do is cry. The only good thing I guess is that he is in Ireland and I'm back here in the states. At least I don't have to see him in person, which would make it all the worse.
I just don't know how to stop loving him....
I just don't know how to stop loving him....
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I can offer you HUGE hugs though.
I don't know.
I left my husband August 24th because he was financially a nightmare.
And I still love him and miss him.
I'm not going back, but..
maybe I'll always love him, but it won't always hurt this much.
I believe that you will always love them but like saracooks said it just won't always hurt that much.
I was in a relationship for 7years and out of the blue he tells me he doesn't love me and finally got up the courage to tell me he didn't want to be with me.
It has been 6 months now. I have good days and bad. Being bipolar doesn't help the matter either, it put a big damper on the relationship as it was untreated and when I did get treatment the time seemed to late.
My suggestion is to don't let anyone tell you how or when it will happen. Go through it in your own way and you will be better in the long run.
Internal peace, and love
I love my husband and he loves me. The fact of the matter is that love sometimes has nothing to do with everyday life. Love doesn't get the rent paid nor does it put food in our mouthes.
So, love him, he's probably a decent guy outside of your separation and divorce. Just don't make yourself believe that love is the begining and the end of your life.
I have to think about the pain that her decision has caused me, our children, friends and family. The her behavior says, "I do not care!" I can listen to the words of her mouth which is a lie factory or watch her actions to see the truth. The truth sets us free but it hurts like hell.