
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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That's my question. It seems I have been fighting to save my marriage for years and now I'm not sure why anymore. I was doing so much, holding it together whilst my H had switched off, from the beginning of this year I stopped trying and we have been like dead people. He avoids talking to me for fear of the inevitable. We more or less agreed there was nothing left but then I felt so awful for the kids I panicked and backed out. I know I'm doing the worst thing ever by not making a decision, its not fair on me, him or the kids but in all honesty how do you make that decision??
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