I have heard that often in the stories that have been shared. I struggled with my decision for 10 years. I always thougt that it would get better. That I know is my issue. Spouse that cheat for example, how do they just decide that want something different? Are they so clueless that they do not realize that their actions have an affect on others? I know that my stbx didn't think anything he had ever done had anything to do with his family. He is very self centered. Thought everything should revolve around his work, his playtime, his friends. At one point I encouraged this. We were young when we married and he was a devoted father and husband, but I could tell he was unhappy. I suggestted he find some friends to do outdoor things that he loved so much. Boy has that come back to bite me. It seemed that after that what he did came first. He ws building his buiness and everything he was doing became so important. Now i would consider him a raging workacholic and very addicted to drugs and alcohol. so tell me how do they just walk away when they have family that have been supporting them as they try to reach there goals.
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