Not to sure if anyown else goes through this, i have been divorced now for almost 1 year this January, but we have been apart since 2002, tryed reconciling and didn't work out... anyway, this is my problem looking for some advice. He is to take the kids on Thursdays evening and every other Saturday for 24hrs thats it thats all.. So this last Thursday he shows up and only wants one child the oldest cause he needs to do christmas shopping, i said i am not your babysitter tonights your night you take all 3.. he therefore tells our daughter she is gettting nothing from him and its my fault so thank me for it... he does this often,,, makes me so mad, not to mention hurts the kids as well. So this morning at 8:30 am he is here ringing the door bell banging on the door. Had no idea what was going on, he our son had hockey he is 6 and hockey is at 10am, the father is frantic cause he wasn't ready, we didn't no he had hockey! Our son is Atistic and doesn't like anything out of order so it makes life hard sometimes...poor boy was all confused and crying didn't and couldn't understand why his father was screaming at him once again,, grrrr angers me, saddens me also to see this little one running in circles to please this man that is supposed to love him unconditionaly... so my son in re-turn takes his christmas gifts that he gave me and gave them to his father to say sorry he wasn't ready ....in other words daddy please still love me!!!! he took it through it in his truck said get your ass in there LETS GO!!!! How do i and my childen handle someone like that,,, and if anyone on here goes through somethng of the same how do you handle it? sorry its so long...."smiles"
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