I have been devastated by the little double-betrayal scenario, and my whole life has been turned uopside down -- but I didn't have a spouse walk out on me and kids. We did not have kids. When I try to imagine what this would be like with kids, it is not possible for me. I feel like I have hung out to dry finacially -- I am also all-too-aware that parents often walk out on the other parent and leave the kids and then don't offer any emotional or financial support -- or make things horrible with punitive tactics -- wow, that has to be beyond tuff. Is it because you have the kids that you can make it when that happens? I am just still so blown away by this whole experience -- and that's w/o kids! I hate my stbx so much adn yet I cry -- is that because I have the luxury of crying (when I have time)? Just wondering what it's like for parents who divorce, I know something about it of course, but will enver have that experience personally.
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