Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
that is my question. How do you get over your ex? How do you handle your ex replacing you in his life?
How can he move on so quickly, like i never meant anything to him?
How do i trust again? How do i handle him having "slumber parties" when my kids are there (and my daughter hears them)?
When does the hurting stop?
How do you forgive?
How can he move on so quickly, like i never meant anything to him?
How do i trust again? How do i handle him having "slumber parties" when my kids are there (and my daughter hears them)?
When does the hurting stop?
How do you forgive?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
the poor sorry new woman, good luck to her, your better off. 10mg of sedation and a beer thats always a start.. lol
i have found humor but it doesnt help the lonely nights go by faster.
You need to quit letting him take up all your time!!! He is not worth it! Fill the time with things YOU enjoy, things you were not free to do when he was there!
Have your own slumber parties,, even if it is with girlfriends sitting around gossiping about boys, like we did when we were teenagers! That actually helped me! LOL The child in me lives on!
I was going to suggest: Hit him hard with a frying pan, make sure he's out cold and then just step over and run like hell out the door!
OK, All jokes aside, the reason your ex can move on so quickly is because he left, mentally and emotionally before he actually left. He detached. Sucks that he didn't allow you time to catch up but that's usually the way it goes. He hasn't replaced you. He has chosen to be with someone else. She isn't you nor could she ever be and you should thank God for the fact that you are unique and special. The fact that your ex doesn't see that and appreciate it any longer is HIS loss......in time you will see that this is true.
Ah, trusting again.... That will be a long process. One that I am sad to say, is most difficult for me. Counseling helps. Communication helps.
I have no children so I don't feel equipped to help you with that question.
When does the hurting stop? Most likely, never. It just gets easier to bear over time. Don't kick me. I have to say that because it's true.
How do you forgive? Do you even want to? You don't HAVE to. It would be nice and great for your character but you simply can't force it.
You just hang in there! At least you've decided on the questions. That means you're past the part where you say "What the heck just happened here?" Good Luck!
No, your heart has to heal.
I'm still not fully healed but so much farther along than I have been.
Forgiveness is somethign I'm working on. I'm working on it for ME though not HIM. I feel when I fully forgive him, my heart will really be free to fully love another.