Hello everyone! I just joined the board today (or was it yesterday). I have a questioned for anyone who can help. Now I know this is a new path in my life (only a few days old)but I just found out that my husband of 18 years (together 25) has been having an affair for the past 7/8 years (he is unsure). The worst part about it is that he moved our kids and I to the States from Canada knowing that he didn't want to be with us. Now 4 years later he is shipping us back so his lover can come and live with him (she is in Nebraska). And she will be bringing her daughter. I just can't get over the anger about the lies about him choosing her over us, and he has absolutely no sense of remorse, guilt, what have you. I find myself in fits of bawling so bad that I ccan't breath, so mad that I can't eat and everytime I close my eyes I picture him telling me all the lies over and over again. I honestly don't know what to do. If anyone can help me I would greatly appreciate it. I know time heals all wounds, but for my sanity I need something faster than time.
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