I just found my stbx is on a dating site, looking for someone else, and we're not even divorced yet. I feel betrayed for me and our young children. He says he's happy to find someone with children, but I feel jealous on my children's behalf that he'll be spending time with someone else's children! I don't want him as he was, he was selfish and abusive, but I don't want anyone else to have him either! How have you coped with this dilema?
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