I know a lot of you were blindsided and had no preparation time to deal with your significant other being with someone else. We've been apart for 9 months now, due to an emotional affair on my part. Although i made this huge mistake, i never stopped loving him and was out of my mind to do what i did. I've tried for 9 months to make a reconcilation possible and he was open to if for a while. Lately he says he can't get over it and shouldn't have to. I had a dream last night he was with someone else and woke up ill. What in god's name do you do to cope with someone else being with the one you love? Our marriage was not great, but learning what i have throughout all this has showed me that it's what i truly want and am willing to work on it at any cost. If it doesn't work, how can I ever cope with him living a life with someone else. I can't handle the thought. I don't think time will help that ever.
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