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Why doesn't he recognize how much I love him? Why doesn't he see that love is right in front of his face?
He claims to love me, and also claims he left because he didn't want to me ME through this anymore.
He is insecure. How do you help a man who is insecure? I mean everything I do or say he questions. He thinks I must not love him. That is why he left. He wants to be with me, and wants to come home, but every time things are going good on the phone he gets suspicious of something or questions me about something that I am not doing.
It irratated me and pushed me away when he was here, but now I miss him so much that he is gone. I can't help but feel like he left me to get me to love him more. Like manipulate me. But what if he really is just insecure, and really just thought I didn't love him? How do you convince a man that you love him?
I am so confused!
He claims to love me, and also claims he left because he didn't want to me ME through this anymore.
He is insecure. How do you help a man who is insecure? I mean everything I do or say he questions. He thinks I must not love him. That is why he left. He wants to be with me, and wants to come home, but every time things are going good on the phone he gets suspicious of something or questions me about something that I am not doing.
It irratated me and pushed me away when he was here, but now I miss him so much that he is gone. I can't help but feel like he left me to get me to love him more. Like manipulate me. But what if he really is just insecure, and really just thought I didn't love him? How do you convince a man that you love him?
I am so confused!
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See, the hard part is I just got out of a bad relationship where I was very much in love with (my ex), and that is when he came into my life and he was my best friend. He was my best friend, and then moved in as a roomate for a year. After that time we ended up building a relationship together, but he is so insecure about my ex. He still thinks I love my ex, which I don't.
I can't convince him because he already has in his head that I want my ex back, which I don't. If I wanted him back I could have him back today... i don't want him he was no good for me. I just can't convince him of this. That is where his insecurities came from.
I feel like I can't win.
What is there to be insecure about? He needs to stop comparing my love for him to my love I had for my EX because the love I had for my EX was unhealthy. The love I have for him is a healthy love. One that doesn't make me vulnerable.
I did not.
I gave him no reason to think I had or would.
his insecurity was overwhelming at times.
I'm an attractive woman and was made to feel bad about that.
I was ever cognizant of his fear. To the point that I had no straight male friends.
It was his lack, not mine.
He does sound insecure.
Maybe you did have baggage that he picked up on at some point.
If you both want it to work you should regroup and take it a step at a time. Maybe start dating again without the move in?
Try not to rush things. That could smother a guy that is not sure of his feelings.