Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I was seeing a guy from work and he just stopped calling. I knew he didn't want anything serious but I fell for him. I liked him. When he stopped calling, it broke my heart. Because I work with this jerk, I hear things all day about his life. Like this morning, I overheard him talking about a girl I know he has been interested for awhile. I didn't hear the whole conversation but it bothers me. I told myself that I was going to try to mind my own business and not listen in. I would try to avoid situations where I would over hear things that could hurt me. What do I do if I hear these things. I realize that he has a life to live and I am not involved in it. I try to let it go, but sometimes my curiosity gets the best of me and I end up getting upset. I figure I am crazy and weak and don't know how to just let things go. I need some tools to use to help me avoid these self destructing habits I want to stop crying
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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I have my maxed amount of epidural shots of my cervical DDD....(and no one cares about my lumbar DDD)..... I've done physical therapy, muscle relaxers, Amitriptyline, Nortryptiline, desipramine.....narcotics... So I decided to go to a spine specialist and they have me on Gabapentin. Its been two weeks and it did nothing for my lumbar ever... but it did seem to help my cervical and arm/hand pain...
I take that a step further... never date anyone that lives within a 100 mile radius.
Well, that is a hard situation to be in everyday. Is there any chance of moving to another area to work in? Changing jobs?
If not, you will have to put on a brave face and and a smile and charge on. I know that it is difficult, but to be honest he doesn't seem to be worth your heartache.
I find it cruel, that this person who knows that you liked him a lot would speak about another girl within your earshot. Is that really someone that you would want to have a long term loving relationship with?
Try to hold your head up high and remember that you are special. Good luck.