How do u fix a relationship when you hurt someone so much? I have been w/my husband for 3 yrs. I am bipolar. U can read my profile. for the past year and a half I have had these mood swings and everytime I would get mad at him I would break up with him. I did this I think 4 times. And I just found out I am bipolar and my meds seem to be working but he just doesn't know what to do anymore. He already knows how I feel . But I think he doesn't understand. And he says I have hurt him so much . That he said it will take time to forgive me. He always has been so good to me. I don't want to lose him. I talked to him today and he is going to my docs appoinment in april. And he says this is the first time he doesn't have an answer. Cause I asked him if we are together. He didn't break up with me but , he might as well. And he says if thats what you want to call it but thats all he said. But the other day he said we will work it out. What does anyone think? Any advice. He is the one for me. And our relationship went downhill with the moodswings. Help please.I asked him if I lost him and if he loves me any less , and he says no. But I don't know what to do??
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