I have no idea how to communicate with my s2bx anymore. He cheated on me and left me for this new woman (even though of course at first he said it was "just sex"). He also revealed two other incidents over the last 5 years. He has really hurt me, obviously. The last straw was bringing our 3 boys (8, 4,1) around his new girl. We had only been separated a couple of months. As with all of our stories, I could elaborate, but won't. POINT BEING, He wants to just act all buddy buddy with me most of the time. We are going to Florida and he is offering to help me get things we need, asking if I need anything, etc. Sometimes I can chat and accept his help, but most of the time it's hard to even look him in the face and not want to tell him off. What is better for the kids given that they know their dad cheated on mommy and left? I know not to treat him poorly, but do I show them that mom and dad can get along? (Because I don't want them to think it is okay to treat a woman like this) or am I just polite with their father and that's it?
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