How do I resist that urge to call the xbf. Even though I know the relationship is over, I can't help but think of him and wonder how he is. I feel like an addict needing a fix. I know if I do call him, I will make things worse for both of us. So far I have been able to resist that urge, but at night when my kids are in bed and my house is quiet, I feel weak. How can I get him out of my head and stay strong? I already had a bowl of ice cream (not good for my diet) and have written a bunch of e-mails. I need to do work, but I just can't focus. Any advice?
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