My husband and I just recently split up, it was me wanting this more than he did. But we have decided to remain civil and hopefully somewhat friends. My problem is this. I know I am not in love with him anymore, I know personality wise we are two differant people. But I still love him, and I get a little teary eyed at the thought of moving on without him and there never being an us. Why can I be so sure of something, but so unsure at the same time? Maybe I am just scared because we have been together for 12 years now, and I have become used to him being there. I don't know it is just all very strange.
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