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deleted_user 11/14/2007

I know that i need to love me before i can really let someone have my heart, but what do i do to start loving me. I need to find something that occupys me without drinking too much, or obsessing about work. i don't know.

deleted_user 11/14/2007

I say try the running. It is quite addicting. great for you and clears the head. I look forward to it.

deleted_user 11/14/2007

Volunteer somewhere. Also, Spend some time alone without drinking.

LarryLDN 11/14/2007

oh. good q. hmm.

deleted_user 11/14/2007

What is you talent? Everyone has one. Maybe writing a Transformers screenplay or inventing a new character and submitting it to HASBRO.

Focus on what you like no matter what other people think of it. Focus on your dreams and work at them and self love, money, and true love from others will follow.

deleted_user 11/14/2007

how i love me...let me count the ways...

deleted_user 11/14/2007

When you can accept yourself and love your self things will start to look better.

deleted_user 11/14/2007

it might sound funny BUT trust me GOD has amazing ways of helping..you need to be your own #1 fan and really enjoy just being you..

deleted_user 11/14/2007

Look at yourself in the mirror every morning and say:

I love and accept you exactly as you are.

Brutal, I know, but important.

downforthecount 11/15/2007

The way to love yourself is in ongoing service to others...give as much as you can, do as much as you can, be as selfless as you can..expect nothing.

deleted_user 11/15/2007

Fink we had a plan on how to feel great, with out drinking it will keep your mind occupied, and then the love will come.

This is what the plan will bring to you if you do this for yourself, you will win every time.

Thriver 11/15/2007

i think acceptance is key. Accept yourself the way you are, right now. You are just fine. Anyone can be improved but that is not what I'm talking about. You are just fine as you are, you are loveable, you are fine. Relax about anything you think you ought to be, ought to have done or not done, really have to do immediately to make yourself ok.......you are ok.

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