I need to get some advice from woman on this one my girl friend and i broke up because of financial reasons i lost my job and she had to pay for the bills and the apartment and then she lost her job and her mothers was paying the bills and the apartment so she came up with the idea of us moving back into are parents place to save up money and get new jobs and start over but are relationship hasnt been perfect i have a bad temper of which if have been receiving counseling for but are relationship had been abusive at the near end and we would fight all the time because we were both broke and sitting home with each other all day long with nothing better to due but bitch and moan about are situation so she moved back to her mothers and i moved back to mines and we were just talking almost everyday but my mother doesnt like her and her mother doesnt like me so we cant really see each other offten and we were connected at the hip before we broke up the reason why we broke up is because of my controlling ways and her lieing she had cheated on all her other BF's because they "didnt have what she was looking for" but i did and she lied to me about little things and to make a long story short she was in contact with guys and girls that were her friends and her friends are sluts that have no respect for them self and i didnt like her hanging with them and my friends were assholes that cheated on there girl friends all the time and would use me as bait to bring in woman to talk to so i stopped talking to mu friends and she stopped talking to most of her friends except the really close ones and we were happy but come to find out after we were apart she had a face book for 2 months before we broke up so i left her and was happy but i still care about her alot she is my first love and now we talk a little bit and she just wanted me to get my act together get a job and stand up on my own feet and we can get back together and start over she told me near the end that she wasnt happy with me thats why she was talking to her friends again and now she goes out a drinks and parties someting i had helped her stop because she was boarderline acholic but she has also informed me that hse is hangging out with a 30 yr old man who has lots of money but that shes not having sex with him she is only using him for his money and i told her that waz wrong and not to speak with him anymore her reply was to let her be spoiled for a while and to get my shit together before i try to get back with her i say thats ok as long as shes not having sex with him she has my name tattooed on her body so i dont think she is doing anything with him but i dont trust it i have a job interview 2morrow and if i get it me and her will be entering talks about a new relationship so ladys do you think she loves me and wants to be with me or is she just fucking with my head?
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