Ok I just found out that my ex husband is expecting a baby with his TRASHY 'friend'. He is soooo mad at me because I am not jumping for joy at his news. Here are a few facts...We have been divorced for two years, but I still care for him very much. Despite him breaking my heart we managed to keep our friendship...somewhat (he usually asks my advice on things). When he started messing around with this girl I told him that she was going to try to get pregnant by him...she has had a crush on him for a while. Now this may be TMI, but she told him that she had an IUD for birth control...to my knowledge you have to have had a baby in order to get an IUD. She has no children. I called out her lie to him but he obviously didn't listen. We have a two year old son that he only sees about 3 times a month...that is completly my ex's fault, he could see him more if he wanted. My son adores him and I wouldn't stand in the way of their relationship for anything. My problem is I don't want my baby around this TRASHY woman. I am scared to death that she has an STD and that somehow my baby will get it from her. Also, I am afraid that this new baby will take what few days he does spend with our son away. How do I handle all this???
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