As most of you know my husband and I have been seperated for some time now... I found out recently that he may be with holding money from the kids that legally through the gov't and through his military job should be some of ours. I know that if I go through his commanding officer he could be in some serious trouble with the military yet again. I have plans to sit and talk with this man tonight on Yahoo messenger about things that are going on and things that need to be done. But it is not easy for me to talk to him... and I'm really scared to talk to him and ask him about this money he is taking from the gov't and living off of each month as the kids and i struggle to make it. See parts of me are still in love with him, even after all he's put us though, and I don't know how to go about talking to him about this. I find myself avoiding agruments, I don't want to fight, I want just want to talk to him about these things without coming across as a witch and I just dont know how to go about it without coming across as such. To face reality, I don't really know how to hold a conversation with him anymore. I know I still love him, but I also know that my life with him is over. This is really hard for me, how do I approach him with what I need to say, what do I do... how do I do this? please someone help me....
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