My husband and I have been married for 7 years, we have three kids, one his, one mine and one together. We have been renting a home for the last 2 years in both our names. I want a divorce, he agrees but says he wont be the one to leave or file cause he doesnt want to be the one to break up the family. He is currently not working so I am paying all the bills, because of this I am unable to save enough money to move out on my own. I want him to leave, however, I know he has a child to take with him as well. I have no family here for support and I know if i do try to move out (which i tired once- he wont let me take anything). If I file for divorce and ask to stay in the house, whats my chances, becuase we are only renting? How can I get Him to leave instead of me, cause he'll never leave and its getting worse. I dont want to turn ugly and get a restraining order or anything, that seems to just make things worse, im trying to solve this amicably, however he is an alcoholic so there is not maturity there at all. Please help!
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