Okay, got divorced in August, I am in NH, he is in Maine. Once in a while we email each other and once in a while we IM each other. But I want to completely cut ties, he apparently doesn't. He cheated on me (with men) and goes to dating websites (for gays) and I know for a fact he still does. He tells me he doesn't do that anymore but I know he does, he was there on one of those sites today in fact (don't ask how I know, I just know). Now, why lie about it? Why is he lying about it? I will never go back to him, he blew it and that is that. I agreed before the divorce to be friends with him but I don't want even that anymore. Especially since he can't even be honest with me. I tried deleting him out of my contacts for my IM but he called shortly after. How can I tell him in a nice way goodbye? Maybe gradually pull away or what? I just want to put it all behind me and go on with my life. Am I being selfish in this? How do I get him out of my life completely?
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