I am so angry, and I need to forgive him, the kids don't need to be around that much anger and we are separating so It would make things easier to deal with if I could just forgive him. But he Hasn't said sorry, doesn,t even pretend to beslightly remorseful about stringing me along for 16 years when he never really loved me. Won't work on our marriage because according to him I would need a total personality change to make him happy. When asked why he would marry anyone if you don't believe love is forever, his response was he thought it was then, but he was wrong. I tried just letting go, and trying to remember I don't need him to be happy. Is there a trick to working thru this or is one of those time things. I really don't want to carry around the anger, and I know I can forgiveness doesn,t depend on him asking for it, but everytime he opens his mouth, my blood just starts boiling. Any ideas?
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