Since my husband has been out of the house for 3 weeks now and still seems to be headed for divorce, I know there are things I need to start doing to prepare myself. I have been an at-home mom for over 10 years. I know I need to start consulting lawyers. People keep saying I need to protect myself and these children, which, of course, I know I do. This has all just happened so fast and I have been so blindsided by the whole thing that it's been kind of paralyzing. I don't feel like doing anything except what I have to do to keep things going every day. I want to spend time just talking to people, or reading and posting here and elsewhere, as if it's somehow going to change things. I know I need a plan and I need to start working on it. I just can't seem to get there.
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