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How do I cope with my husband?

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My marraige is falling apart because of many reasons. The one that I cant seem to get past is that my husband views me as the enemy. I have stood by him through his addictions and his mental disorders. He avoids any help and refuses to take any of my advice. It has been a repeating cycle that has resulted in my complete resentment of him. I am so mad at him, that I don't know if I can get past it. Is this a normal part of the begining of the end, or am I giving up too soon? Sorry for the lack of info, I'm so lost I don't know where to begin.
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He needs to understand that the marriage can not just be you putting in the effort that he needs to do the same. Have you guys tried counseling? I am getting divorced after 9 yrs of marriage and even though he was the biggest jerk i can look past the bad to see the good in him. Sorry if i am not much help but I am here for you if you need to talk.
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He refuses to get help?

Don't waste your life on him.
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I would say that your hysband is lucky you have stood by him this long. and if you are having problems like that its not to soon to think about leaving.
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Sound similar to what I am going through with my wife. Whenever I express how her actions effect me she turns and attacks with BS trying to get me on the defensive which her guilt is the real problem and it hits her ever time she looks at me. I already forgave what she copted to what she hasn't is whats causing her behavior, her choice. I don't bring up the past she always does. Does any of this sound familiar in your case? If not sorry for rambling- Robert
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