Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I found my husband in bed with another woman this morning. I think I would be foolish to believe this was his first time. I have had my suspicions before, but could never prove them or catch him. Our 16 year old son was witness to this also. I don't have a clue what to do. I don't think I can reconcile because I could never look at him the same way again. I think there would always be paranoia(SP?). Besides, he probably doesn't want to come home anyway because he packed a suitcase and left to go to "her" home. What advice can anyone give me? What do I need to do first? I am afraid he will come here when I'm away and start taking things from the home. I know they are half his, but I don't think this is the right time to start divvying things up. Am I wrong? Please, all advice is welcome.
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
The first thing I would do is call a lawyer, and change the locks. If you really think reconsiliation is out of the question then file for D. I feel bad for your son. That's a terrible thing for him to witness. I hope he's OK. If you need to talk there are great people here to talk to!
Make sure you don't let this guy convince you of anything less!
I really do know the shock and despair you are feeling. I thought the biggest problem in my marriage was my husband's alcohol abuse and workaholism.
Feb. 5, I came home from work and there was a message on my phone from a prostitute. Uh...I mean "escort".
Long story short. STBX has been seeing pretty young escorts since October. OUCH!!
We've been married 14 1/2 yrs. and together for 19. No kids together, but he is losing my daughter and a grand daughter and grandson! That is the best revenge I can think of right now. He is losing sooooo much.
You WILL be okay and it helps to know others are with you in the same boat with the active current tossing us around. Emotions change daily!
I'm concerned about your son. How awful for him to see his dad like that. What a great role model your husband is (sarcasm).
I really feel for you! BTW....THIS is my first post here.
from my house that had emotional value to me. I know how you feel its okay and you and your child will be okay if you think positive.