I found my husband in bed with another woman this morning. I think I would be foolish to believe this was his first time. I have had my suspicions before, but could never prove them or catch him. Our 16 year old son was witness to this also. I don't have a clue what to do. I don't think I can reconcile because I could never look at him the same way again. I think there would always be paranoia(SP?). Besides, he probably doesn't want to come home anyway because he packed a suitcase and left to go to "her" home. What advice can anyone give me? What do I need to do first? I am afraid he will come here when I'm away and start taking things from the home. I know they are half his, but I don't think this is the right time to start divvying things up. Am I wrong? Please, all advice is welcome.
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