I know, I sound like a 14 year old kid with a question like that! I'm serious though! I have a girlfriend and I still love her, we are just so different than we used to be...both of us. We're not a good fit anymore. She thinks we're fine, but I know we're not. I'm a divorced father of 2 and she has no kids and never married. I feel like she brings up something negative about my ex every day, and if I don't chime right in with a "yeah I know" or "you're so right" it starts a fight because she thinks I'm taking her side. I don't feel like I am, I just have a different view. She also tries to make me feel guilty. We got into a fight the other night and she was upset and started crying. It used to make me feel really bad, but I don't now, because I feel in my heart that sometimes I haven't done anything wrong. She gets mad if I don't agree with her on things. It's not even that I disagree with her, I just might have a different opinion. It's like I know what to do, just not how to do it. I don't want to hurt anyone. HELP!
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