My stbx had a affair for years before I moved out. I moved out beliving we could work on our marriage. He got a lawyer and served me with some papers. I disagree with the papers so I will not sign them. Now he say just write down what I want out of the marriage. I am just so sad and I don't know what I want. Sounds horrible to think the marriage ends with just some simple papers signed and it is over. I don't know what I am suppose to ask for out of the marriage. I have no clue. He is living in the house we got together. Our children live with him and I live right next door. The children go back and forth. I just do not know what to write on this paper.
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