My husband of 26 years woke me up at 2am 2 months ago and told me he loved me; but wasn't in love with me anymore. With that he moved out to a so called friends house (28yr old female with 2 boys). He took my bank card and demanded I take my name off joint acct. I haven't. Came back home for a couple of weeks; when the dog died. Then annouced he was only here to help me through the grieving. Then he left again to go back to her. Then he came over one day and said he wanted to work on things. Not to do anything legal. Then next day came back over and told me to see my lawyer and get seperation papers done. I find myself on nerve pills and antidepresants. Crying and moodswings not wanting to trust anyone and not caring about anything. I just cleaned up my house for the first time in a month which is very unlike me cause I usually do it everyday. I had a car that was paid off till he convinced me to buy a new one. Now have a car payment. He wants me to pay all bills and him just to pay house payment. how can I do that on fastfood salary? I'm scared and still in love and hurt and everything else at same time. HELPPPP!!!!!!
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