Ok I think I have steam coming out of my ears. And I really need some views! I have a friend that is also a friend of my stbx. Anyway, this person has taken it upon themselves to let me know what stbx is telling others. And believe me it hasn't been nice. Anyway, this person just informed me that he is already looking for someone new to take my place, or as I refer to them, the next victim! I am f****** shocked. The sheets on the bed haven't cooled off from our last night together. We have only been separated for 3 weeks! I have not even begun to think about dating. Know that I need to heal myself first. But this is such a low blow! How could he. We are still legally married not even legally separated! Just living apart at this time. I was doing so good about trying to heal and this just seems to be such a huge setback for me. Please, I need some encouraging words.
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