It just floors me when I read these topics, I agree with everyone but when it comes to myself I don't heed any of these warnings or advice. It all sounds so good telling everyone but to apply it to oneself I can't do it.... I know I am so lame when it comes to talking to him I try and am doing pretty good not talking to him but I still want to all of the time... How does one let things go and not dwell or be consumed with the other (STBX)I just don't know how to let go.. I so am ready to let it go but I don't have a clue how too.when I read the responses it all sounds so cut and dry... and I try and apply it and I just can't...I know for my own sanity and to move forward I have to let go and try and put things behind me but i feel like I'm lost... I need help to get on the right track... Thanks you guys all are so helpful I would be a total mess without this board it really does help to come here and read. thanks everyone
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