
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
i cant relate to you because my husband leaving was the best thing. the first month was so so painful, but it slowly did get better. i had to learn to accept the truth of the situation. looking back on what he had done to me was painful but something i had to confront in order to move on. when i feel weak and want to give in and call him i ask myself...has he put any effort into making our relationship work? seems like the more i gave, the more he demanded, and the less he loved me. i have to start loving myself and stop feeling sorry for him.
So -- I wouldn't make too much of a fuss over his birthday, but that's based on my personal experience only.
I chose to ignore my ex's Birthday, we have no children together, no ties, etc. However I do recognize the birthday of my sons father (ex of nearly 8 yrs and a man I was married to for over 20 yrs.). He does the same with me...no gifts, a card or an e card! I think we do this because we each recognize the other as being a huge part of our son's life.