My ex told me yesterday that sometimes she feels like not even fighting for custody now and just starting new somewhere else where no one knows her. She hasn't seen our kids in two weeks and they ask me when she's coming to town to be with them. Do I tell them what she's thinking or do I just keep my mouth shut and tell them nothing? She knows I would never keep them from her but I don't think she even cares anymore. I could not imagine being without them and don't see why she can't feel the same way. For 12 years she loved them and was always there for them, now for the past 7 months she sees them maybe 6-10 days a month. It breaks my heart to tell them that Mom's not coming this weekend but I think they are used to it. Why don't some people see that kids suffer more than they sometimes let on and it's not always about you? Kids have nothing to do with divorce but the pain they go through lasts a lifetime.
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