After almost a month with no contact whatsoever, my stbx called and asked if we could get together. I asked him what was going on and got a very vague, "I just want to talk about everything that's happened." I'm sure what he wants to discuss are the terms of our separation/divorce. (He wants to try and work it ourselves rather than a big, long, ugly court process because he doesn't want us to end up "bitter enemies" -- ha, ha, too late!) While I know in my head this is what he wants to discuss, there is this little part of me hoping that now he's lived with the OW for about 2 months, he's realized what a horrible mistake he's made and is going to beg me to take him back. I know that is a childish fantasy, and I'm just setting myself up for more hurt, so I'm trying really hard to push that out of my mind. I don't think I would even take him back at this point, but I still want him to beg for forgiveness and ask to come home. So stupid! Please give me a reality check!
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