I am new to this and I'm sure you all have heard/been through this. I have been divorced now for 1 month/separated for 6 months. Never saw it coming. He had an affair with a girl 20 years younger and now is dating a girl 22 years younger. How do I stop thinking about him. I don't want him back but I keep thinking about the times we had. I miss them. Like I said, I never saw it coming. I have twin 14 year olds but I am lonely for company. I am not very good at making friends. I had him for 7 years and that was it. I don't know how to get out of my hole. I go to work and when I'm not at work I sit in my house. I don't know what I like to do....I never took the time for myself. I guess I'm just having a day today and just feeling sorry for myself. Thought I might find someone to hear me out there. Thanks for listening.
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