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How Are People Healing And Moving Forward?

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I haven't posted in a while and Larry dug up one of my old posts... got me to thinking about how well I am now compared to a year ago when I started on DS (and for me it has been 17 months) since I found out about my stbx and his GF... but anyway... the question I have for people is..
HOW ARE YOU HEALING? WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE?
Me... I'm focusing on me and my family. I'm doing 'new things'. Focus on new and different. For example I've taken up Yoga and joined a second health club, I've been biking this summer (actually biked 65 miles)... I'm back to playing my guitar.
While I have strived to do new things... I've also worked hard recently at stepping back into those things I used to do with my family (such as hiking), etc. Now I can go back to those place and do things with my kids without my stbx and not be upset. Last year I couldn't do that.
I am truly healing and focusing every day on healing more. The way I do that... I focus on constantly growing myself and healing myself.
I exercise daily and journal regularly.
I have expanded my friendships and continue to meet new people and develop new relationships.
While I am dating someone, I'm in this with no expectations at present..
SO TELL ME HOW ARE YOU ALL HEALING... WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR YOU? HOW ARE YOU MOVING YOURSELF FORWARD>?
HOW ARE YOU HEALING? WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE?
Me... I'm focusing on me and my family. I'm doing 'new things'. Focus on new and different. For example I've taken up Yoga and joined a second health club, I've been biking this summer (actually biked 65 miles)... I'm back to playing my guitar.
While I have strived to do new things... I've also worked hard recently at stepping back into those things I used to do with my family (such as hiking), etc. Now I can go back to those place and do things with my kids without my stbx and not be upset. Last year I couldn't do that.
I am truly healing and focusing every day on healing more. The way I do that... I focus on constantly growing myself and healing myself.
I exercise daily and journal regularly.
I have expanded my friendships and continue to meet new people and develop new relationships.
While I am dating someone, I'm in this with no expectations at present..
SO TELL ME HOW ARE YOU ALL HEALING... WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR YOU? HOW ARE YOU MOVING YOURSELF FORWARD>?
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I have gotten reaquainted with my family, tried to stay busy, started eating healthier and exercising.
I look forward to getting to the point where you are.
OH...welcome back
Good to hear you're doing well :)
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took a good 6 months before I started to accept my position.
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Not trying to communicate with him IS moving forward for me! And, just being real around people instead of covering it up.
You set a great example.
thanks for sharing
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