Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I have been sick with chest congestion, cold, blah blah blah....
Tonight I had called my stbx because our daughter had not gotten back to town and I hadn't heard from her -
Anyway, he said "you sound horrible, I've never heard you sound like this" granted since ya'll don't know me, I have a very very soft voice -(I get mistaken for a little girl all the time..I only wish!) and right now I have a very very deep voice..lol
Then he said can I get you anything - i said no thanks, then he said "You know I will help you if you need anything, just let me know" I said something to the effect of I'm okay - he gets mad - what am I suppose to say - yes, please come take care of me?!?!?!?
I am the type of person that when I am sick I want to be left alone anyway - we were married 23 years, he knows that -
I did call him back later, I decided I needed him to come get my dog (he misses the dog) because going up and down the stairs is really hard when you can't breathe and the dog needs to go outside - well he never called me back so why the heck did he ask in the first place...guess he had better things come up.
Tonight I had called my stbx because our daughter had not gotten back to town and I hadn't heard from her -
Anyway, he said "you sound horrible, I've never heard you sound like this" granted since ya'll don't know me, I have a very very soft voice -(I get mistaken for a little girl all the time..I only wish!) and right now I have a very very deep voice..lol
Then he said can I get you anything - i said no thanks, then he said "You know I will help you if you need anything, just let me know" I said something to the effect of I'm okay - he gets mad - what am I suppose to say - yes, please come take care of me?!?!?!?
I am the type of person that when I am sick I want to be left alone anyway - we were married 23 years, he knows that -
I did call him back later, I decided I needed him to come get my dog (he misses the dog) because going up and down the stairs is really hard when you can't breathe and the dog needs to go outside - well he never called me back so why the heck did he ask in the first place...guess he had better things come up.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
When my ex first left he would offer to do things. Alleviate some of the guilt. He must not be feeling very guilty anymore.
Do you have a neighbor that can help with the dog? Hope you're feeling better. Take care of yourself!