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I really need some advice. You see I don't want to be a Biatch but I have 2 weeks vacation coming up from July 9-20. I told the stbx about this way back in January and reminded him after he left again in May. He said he wouldn't come during my vacation when I asked him not to. Today while I was at his mother's house he called and she told me he will be coming home the last week of my vacation. I was hoping to spend the time with my kids doing fun things like camping etc. Now what do I do? Do I go ahead with my plans as he hasn't told ME when he is coming or do I let him have them and spend my vacation alone? Any advice would be great.
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I would definitely stick to your plans. I am on vacation during that time also. It might not be so bad to let him see the kids a few times so you can have time to yourself. I suggest that you put any time like this in writing next time. Make a copy and give him one. Then you will be able to pull it out and show him that you gave him notice. In my parenting agreement we discussed 60 day notice on vacation schedules.
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I agree, stick to your plans and tell him to make some plans next time.
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