How in the world does anyone play nice with the ex when you have children? My ex woke up one morning and said he wanted to be single. we have two children and split visits 50/50. He left me for a woman who cheats, lies and takes his money. How can I have any respect for him? I am moving on but everytime him and the women break up he calls me because he says I am his friend and he needs someone to talk to. He spills his guts about how bad she is and she has a drug problem. they he decides to get back with her and I am suppose to be ok with it and her being around my children. We can't seem to be nice when it is pick up or drop off day. I feel so bitter because he left me and his choices are so bad I can not even look at him without getting totally pissed off. I think this is my problem but he continues to lie to me and use me. I have tried to not talk but seems it never goes that way and he is so smuck about everything. Any advice???
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