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hmmm I am sooo distraught

deleted_user
deleted_user
I just can't stop wondering when he'll call! Last time we talked was Sunday at 4:30pm. It's been 3 days and I haven't called and I will not either. I just am wondering when he will call me. I am not ready to go out or do anything. This is only 1 month and 1 day old. I am just typing to pass the time and reading everyone's threads. Some threads I have no idea what to say. I am new to marriage and new to divorce. It has all happened sooooo fast I am nuts
1toughcookie
1toughcookie
Why do you want him to call?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'll get satisfaction that he is at least wondering and hurting like I am
deleted_user
deleted_user
hon you prob dont want to hear this but its a fact

you dont want him to call..it only opens up wounds and leads to false hope

do not contact him
deleted_user
deleted_user
MSDE is right. And it sets you back at square one of the no contact rule. It's the only way to start healing.
deleted_user
deleted_user
hon, i blocked his email and changed my numbers home and cell

not because i didnt want to hear from him..so i wouldnt know he wasnt calling me..i took the power back to myself..
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deleted_user
deleted_user
What the f*** happened? I went to lunch a couple of hours ago and you had painted your living room and were all jazzed.

Have you met our friend Rebel?
deleted_user
deleted_user
No I haven't met rebel and I used a roller instead of a brush. Fast. I was all jazzed but the ROLLERCOASTER made me hop back on. Who's rebel?
FrankTheGreat
FrankTheGreat
I marked Begin's post "Inspirational." :p
deleted_user
deleted_user
I marked Frank's 2nd post helpful.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I did too Frank!

Too funny Begin...

Trish you can do it, I know it sucks but you can do it!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I didn't call yet and I ain't callin now. I gotta go to the grocery store and I don't wanna go. I gotta buy high gloss trim paint too. I hope I meet someone at the grocery store to pep me up!!! be back later TrishtheDish
deleted_user
deleted_user
Trish, I know your in some kind of stage right now, but do please stay strrong and abide by the no contact rule.

If you break it it will only set you back.

Me too Frank and Julie!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Begin... Big hug, kinda had the same thoughts! I also marked you inspirational!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Damn it. I thought he had already posted here. But heck. It was still very helpful, don't you think?
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