Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I sometimes feel like my life is this VHS movie being controled by a remote control somewhere.
I am trying to move in FF when really somedays it's in slow motion.
Then days like today,it's in rewind going over all the most miserable moments and pausing to get a good look.
My step father passed away in Oct 1999,my aunt Oct2005,my grandmother Thanksgiving Day 1986.It saddens me but my mom has always gotten severely depressed at this time of year.
All the stuff that happened with the ex happened while she was having or recovering from neurosurgery.So as she gets better and can remember more or speak better,these feeling seem intensified as though she is experiencing them like they are fresh an open wounds.
She's in this "I want to die so I can be with my husband" mood.Now I know she loves us and I understand that feeling of loss and despair ...wishing you could have what was lost and you miss so much.I understand it like fresh open wounds from my breakup.
What hurts the most is that she is going ovcer these thoughts in her mind finding reasons we would be better off if she did die.
In her eyes I can't find someone new and have babies while I'm caring for her.She is angry at my ex for what he's done and I have to rehash these emotions because she's in this time warp because of her brain injuries.
I can't take her healing from her because I know damn well he hurt my family and friends by what he's done to me also.It's just really hard to do.
It's equally hard knowing that in some respect it's true.It would be very difficult for me to even date at this point because m time is spent working,caring for my mom and going to doctors appts.
I don't regret this oppurtunity to bond with her.I'm so happy that I will have every moment I could possibly have with her before she does die but somedays when whoever the cruel bastard that controls the remote decies I need a little more SH@@ to deal with...it's just hard.
I am trying to move in FF when really somedays it's in slow motion.
Then days like today,it's in rewind going over all the most miserable moments and pausing to get a good look.
My step father passed away in Oct 1999,my aunt Oct2005,my grandmother Thanksgiving Day 1986.It saddens me but my mom has always gotten severely depressed at this time of year.
All the stuff that happened with the ex happened while she was having or recovering from neurosurgery.So as she gets better and can remember more or speak better,these feeling seem intensified as though she is experiencing them like they are fresh an open wounds.
She's in this "I want to die so I can be with my husband" mood.Now I know she loves us and I understand that feeling of loss and despair ...wishing you could have what was lost and you miss so much.I understand it like fresh open wounds from my breakup.
What hurts the most is that she is going ovcer these thoughts in her mind finding reasons we would be better off if she did die.
In her eyes I can't find someone new and have babies while I'm caring for her.She is angry at my ex for what he's done and I have to rehash these emotions because she's in this time warp because of her brain injuries.
I can't take her healing from her because I know damn well he hurt my family and friends by what he's done to me also.It's just really hard to do.
It's equally hard knowing that in some respect it's true.It would be very difficult for me to even date at this point because m time is spent working,caring for my mom and going to doctors appts.
I don't regret this oppurtunity to bond with her.I'm so happy that I will have every moment I could possibly have with her before she does die but somedays when whoever the cruel bastard that controls the remote decies I need a little more SH@@ to deal with...it's just hard.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game.
It's easy.
Nothing you can make that can't be made.
No one you can save that can't be saved.
Nothing you can do but you can learn how to be you in time.
It's easy.
Nothing you can know that isn't known.
Nothing you can see that isn't shown.
Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
It's easy.
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Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
Nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be.
She just laughs and says "WTF they don't even notice me and I'm the patient!"
She gets a kick out of it just like you said.
So thanks for the giggle!!!!