i still like sound of his voice..but now i know its full of lies and just lies..cold and vacant, but i'll add i've become such a actress and liar too and he doesnt know it..lolollolololol

Oh yeah totally. it makes me nauseous. He's so gross.

Everything about him now makes me want to scream - as for the voice - I have a parrot who does a perfect imitation of the way he used to answer the phone, I just hope he forgets to do that in time, it's driving me nuts!

Oh yes...it makes me tense up. Makes me want to smack him too...but he isn't worth the energy. THAT sucks Beate! I dunno if I could live with that! lol

it never goes away- iv been divorced almost 5 yr. and i still hate his voice. and i still want to slap his face.

I wish!!! I still like to hear his voice ..... even after all the pain and anger he's caused. Something about it draws me back in. That's why it would be better if I just didn't talk to him.

I have a similar reaction as the2ofus. I have a few of his voice mails saved on my cell phone. I routinely make sure every morning and evening be sure it's still save. Even after a year of finding out all the lies and deceit.

Its been a year and no way could I hear his voice. Brings back all the pain and what ifs'. In spite of all the lies and deceit. Too painful. I can't even see him without feeling a kick in the stomach all over again. Thank god I don't have kids by him.

ok, confession time...my H has been calling once a day and I save the call on my cellphone just so I can see how long it's been as well as any calls I make to him. I know I'm a twisted psycho but I can't help it.

Haven't spoken to him since the day he walked out of my life 6 months ago. Only passed on the rode and seen him ride by my house. I got nausuated at the site of him... would probably vomit if I heard his cowardly voice!

I watched the War of the Roses again today for about the 500th time. I love that movie! I have 2 favorite parts. The 1st being when Barbara said that she wanted a divorce. "Because..when I watch you eat,when I see you asleep,when I look at you lately,I just wanna smash your face in.", she said. My 2nd favorite is when they meet their brutal dimise; with his last bit of energy he lays his hand on her shoulder and with her last ounce of energy she tosses his hand off.

lol I would love to get to that point. My ex defiantly has the asshole tone but I still want to hear it

Well, one day his voice is so sweet and then the next it's asshole tone. Depends on the topic we are discussing. He wants to be friends, says he lost his best friend to, even though it was him that has caused all this. Gee, you think i want to be his friend while he is pursing another woman. OK THIS MAN IS TRULEY TWISTED. Keeping in the wings in case things don't work out. He already got busted for that.

Ditto. I don't even pick up his calls anymore. I'd rather communicate via e-mail... so that I can forward his e-mails to my friends and prove what an ass he is. LOL!

My stbx's voice reduces me to a whiney insecure crying heap. So I don't speak to him anymore. No contact helps immensely.