Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

11,855 Members
100,053 Posts
0 Online
Relationships & Sexuality
/ Breakups & Divorce Support Group

His Midlife Crisis

deleted_user
deleted_user
I have put an article in my journal about Midlife Crisis if anyone wants to read it. I sent it to my husband after he left and he never responded. I feel that this is what has happened to him but who knows?
K9Linda
K9Linda
Mine is not having a midlife crisis. Sorry you're having to deal with yours having one. Good luck!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry if your husband is going thru this. It is not commonly so drastic. The article states that the men affected dont realize it so that is reason husband didnt respond.

Woman go thru it also but for some reason its okay. Just another perspective to show I understand.
deleted_user
deleted_user
there should be a warning that appears on foreheads when the symptons appear. the STAY AWAY FROM MY SPOUSE warning would be nice. and on his arm for himself a GROW UP
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wowee, wowee. That sounds like my husband but I think he's too young to be going through that- he's only 35 but many of the characteristics sound the same.
deleted_user
deleted_user
While they are in the midst of it, they won't see reason, or see themselves in any articles you send his way (at least mine never did).
Mine is now admitting that he was having a MLC, (3-4 years later) but the damage is too great, and he isn't willing to do what it takes for me to earn trust in him again.
Carm416
Carm416
Dear Cynthi,

Midlife crisis is an individual thing, while most men, women too experience midlife crisis, not all leave their spouses. Leaving at midlife is also correlated to internal issues which have nothing to do with you, that went unresolved.
julik
julik
This is exactly what I am going through. My stbx will be 53 in just a couple months. THis fits his situation to a T. It very drastic and very painful.
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: kisses2016
    7992
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
  • Rizen

    Walk a Day

    Posted by: Rizen
    Last Reply: mujicaptsd
    2570
    I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...